What’s in a name.
Runners run, teachers teach, and cheaters cheat. It’s all there in the name, right? Despite the obvious logic, one could argue that even those who aren’t “runners” per se do, on occasion, run (even if it’s just across a busy street), and that we all occasionally teach our kids or friends something they didn’t know before. So what about cheaters?
I’ve written at (book) length about how all of us lie and cheat a little. Sometimes we’re unaware of it, as is the case when we have a conflict of interest or begin believing exaggerated versions of our own stories, and sometimes we’re not. Raise your hand if you’ve ever kept extra change after buying something or told someone you were busy when you weren’t. Exactly. So how does identity (whether it’s “liars” who do these kinds of things or just people who occasionally lie) play into cheating? If someone insinuated that you were a cheater before you even had the chance to bend the rules, would it make you cheat more, less, or the same?
A new experiment shows that unlike the swimming swimmers and baking bakers, would-be “cheaters” actually cheat less. In a series of three experiments, participants were given a chance to claim unearned money at the expense of the researchers. There were two conditions in each experiment, and the only difference between them was in the wording of the instructions. In the first condition participants were told that researchers were interested in “how common cheating is on college campuses,” while in the second, they wondered “how common cheaters are on college campuses.”
This is a subtle but, as it turned out, significant difference. Participants in the “cheating” condition claimed significantly more cash than those in the “cheater” condition, who, similar to when we tempted people who had sworn on the bible, did not cheat at all. This was true in both face-to-face and online interactions, indicating that relative anonymity cannot displace the implications of self-identifying as a cheater. People may allow themselves to cheat sometimes, but not if it involves identifying themselves as Cheaters.
It’s an interesting twist in the complex tapestry of cheating behavior, and I think it could be a useful means of curbing dishonesty; maybe beginning tax documents with a warning that “liars will be prosecuted” would help keep people from lying on their tax returns. Or maybe I’ll try having students recite the old cheater, cheater, pumpkin eater rhyme before tests… although “pumpkin eater” may not be much of an affront to the post-kindergarten set.

The Honest Truth About Dishonesty: How We Lie to Everyone - Especially Ourselves

wow. I love this. I live, breathe, and dissect the nuance of words (prolly not always accurately) and it’s amazing to learn the suffix (and verb versus noun, of course) could impact the results so much—and yet highly believable, because of the explanation.
In the beginning of my writing career, it was much easier to say: I’m writing–than I’m a writer (the second felt like a brag/lie!) So go figure…it works all the way around. Great article.
This is a fabulous piece Dan, I really loved reading it. I am curiuos about something; Would you ascribe the lowering of the incidence of cheating to the ‘perception of being a cheater’ on the individual, or do you think that the useage of language in a specific manner may have helped in forming that perception? I ask because I have your books, and I always wonder how I can apply the material! Regards
That was interesting to read. I have always wanted to conduct an expirament (if only i could spell) such as that.
Amazing how evident the Law of God is written on every heart convicting it of sin (lying, cheating, deceiving). Ever amazed.
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We all think everybody cheats at some point but at what point does someone take on the label of a cheater? That’s not us. That’s something really shameful. I think we almost believe they are really two different concepts.
i read all comments and i was surprised. did “people” think that way on regular basis?
I pride myself on my integrity and honesty yet cannot tell a story without embellishment, it’s part of my cultural heritage, story-telling is a huge part of the Irish culture but by strict definition, I am a liar. Thankfully, we are all greater than the sum of our parts.
it tells you are young. it is on you writings. well to be a liar, you must be a clean person, meaning, be in life not only in your thoughts! (seun sahn, kwan um zehn school, the school that don’t select by began to wonder the net!
a korean that live and wrote in english and live “americans” years and know americans and europeans more then you will know a korean person in your life.
You give as an example application “liars will be prosecuted.” I wonder if there is a difference between “the man” identifying liars and oneself identifying liars as with the phraseology in the experiment, where THE PARTICIPANT is asked how common cheaters are.
I suspect that most dishonesty occurs precisely because the person distances their identity from the behavior. That is, the person must first rationalize how an dishonest action doesn’t affect their identity. I heard an organizational behavior professor say a survey of convicted criminals in prison came back with 87% confirming “I am a good person.”
Maybe directly addressing people’s identity will curb dishonesty. Maybe it will backfire. Whereas the person cheated a little before, when forced to accept the cheater label, the person pulls out all the stops. I predict that you’ll get both effects. Most will curb their dishonesty to preserve their identity, and a few will increase their dishonesty as they accept their new identity.
we speek about “name”? well i take the privilege to talk not as a “name” since i don’t have a social title. if you want to check, about the ones who decide their name in their social position. …. but… their are much more people who didn’t decide their social name or…….. a lot, a lot that react “without deciding their social name since they meet all kinds of people, where the main media decide they are not relevant, since the society can’t find a whole category, “no one man” (beattles) task is to function with razionalisation, but also with feelings that are more open to “not knowing that i don’t know”
Interesting piece. Just curious: do you know if there is a gender difference in cheating and lying? More wymin cheat and lie or more men?
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Well hell, here goes. Guilt is an emotion one feels when going against the conventions of a particular society, I.E. ‘Do not stea’l. Shame is a feeling produced in someone when another blames, condemns or critizes one for what they are, a wrong committed unknowingly or is ‘tagged’ with something they cannot change, I.E. Club foot, skin color, religion, whatever… Like I was saying; it’s just a guess.
thank you, thank you…for reminding us of who we really are – good, worthy, honest, beautiful human beings.
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